Podcast Episode

When Kids Cut Off Their Parents, Part 2

Family Vision: Christian Parenting, Marriage & Family Advice·Dr. Rob & Amy Rienow·19 July 2026·28 min

About this episode

What do you do when a child says, "I need space"? Or worse, when they cut off contact completely? In part 2 of this conversation, Rob and Amy Rienow tackle one of the most painful realities facing many families today: strained and broken relationships between parents and adult children. They explore why these ruptures happen, how parents may unknowingly contribute to them, and how the gospel offers hope for healing and reconciliation. Drawing from Scripture and decades of ministry experience, Rob and Amy discuss eight common patterns that can drive children away, the importance of listening over lecturing, and why restoration is usually a long journey rather than a quick fix. Whether you are a parent carrying deep heartache or an adult child longing for healing, this conversation offers biblical wisdom and practical hope. What You'll Learn in This Episode: - Why children often establish boundaries when they feel unsafe or unheard - Eight patterns that can unintentionally push children away - Why healing broken family relationships takes time and humility - How avoiding difficult conversations creates long-term damage - Why anger, perfectionism, and criticism can exasperate children - How both parents and adult children can pursue reconciliation - Why it is never too late to seek healing in your family Featured Resources: Never Too Late Video Bible Study — An eight-session Bible study designed to help parents strengthen relationships with adult children and encourage faith in the next generation. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/nevertoolate The Heart of Your Teen — Discover practical ways to build heart-connected relationships with your teenagers and prepare for lifelong family faithfulness: Availbe FREE at: https://visionaryfam.com/teens Living for Christ at Home — A devotional for teenagers by Lissie Rienow to help young people turn their hearts toward their parents. Available in the FREE resources section at https://visionaryfam.com/home Shine — Amy Rienow's Bible study for women on identity and walking with Christ. Start reading for free: https://visionaryfam.com/shine Visionary Family Community — Join a movement of families committed to passing faith to the next generation. Learn more: https://visionaryfam.com/community Love this episode? We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts and prayer requests at podcast@visionaryfam.com. If this episode encouraged you, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts. Your review helps more families discover the show and grow in their faith. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube so you never miss an episode.