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Why Your Ex Wants To Stay Broken Up - For Now

The Art of Love With Lucia··1 September 2026·13 min

About this episode

Your ex may seem completely certain they want to stay broken up - but what they feel today isn’t necessarily what they’ll feel forever.In this episode, I explain why an ex may defend the breakup even when feelings are still there, how relief can be mistaken for certainty, and why giving them space allows time, absence, and new information to change the way they see their decision. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App:  iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets BookInstagram#getexback #exback #nocontact #nocontactrule