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The trap of "Main character" energy

Marriage Lab·Aaron & Jenna Zint·15 September 2026·38 min

About this episode

Main character energy sounds empowering—but what happens when it follows us into marriage?In this episode, we’re talking about the subtle ways we can start viewing our spouse, our circumstances, and even our disappointments through the lens of the life I’m supposed to be happening. We unpack how main character energy can keep us waiting for our “big break,” resenting the ordinary sacrifices of marriage, and missing the good life God is actually forming in us.Because the gospel offers us something much fuller, than a life where everything revolves around our happiness, fulfillment, and potential—and that might actually be really good news for our marriages.Promo Price until 9/13/26:    Wives- Click here for YOUR HALF OF THE MARRIAGE Click here for the interest listSupport the show------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- GRAB Jenna's Summer Course Here  >>> Become a sponsor of our shows <<< This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much. Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!! patreon.com/TheHabitLab Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Online Small Groups, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.  Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend! Links:Online Small Group - Porn Recovery CourseCouples Coaching, Habit Coaching, Porn Recovery Coaching, Emotional & Relational Health CoachingBook: Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn