How to Talk About What You Want in Bed: Top Tips for Better Sex

Lillian Frances is a pop star, rock climber, and author of the cheeky guide "Finger Banging for Climber Boys". In this episode, Toshi spoke with Lillian all about how to talk about what you want in bed, advice for pre-hookup check-ins and sexy ways to set boundaries, as well as why you should know more about female anatomy if you want to have better sex.   Find more of Lillian (and her book) here. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro  00:47 – What is finger banging for climber boys?  01:51 – Why this book is a trojan horse (in the best way) 03:22 – How asking questions makes you so much better in bed 07:23 – Why it’s important to talk about sex in your everyday life 12:12 – Asking for consent is sexy: here’s why 19:41 – Advice for a pre-hookup check-in 21:25 – The difference between opt in vs opt out consent (and why one leads to better sex) 27:18 – Try this if you want a fun, sexy way to set boundaries 30:33 – What you should know about the female anatomy to have better sex  33:39 – Why you should read Lillian’s book  -----------------  Check out our books, 'How to talk with your kids about porn' and 'The Organ Education Forgot', available here to download or buy.  Follow us here: InstagramTikTokFacebookYouTube For more info, find us on our website! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.