Podcast Episode

Signs From Heaven, Part Three: How a Puppy Named Indy Found Us

INDY Foundation: Connecting through Cancer··6 September 2026·13 min

About this episode

TakeawaysSigns from someone you've lost don't have to be dramatic to be meaningful. Sometimes it's a coincidence you can't shake, not a feather or a dream.Bringing new joy into your life, whether it's a new pet, a new chapter, or a new love, doesn't replace what or who you lost. It adds to the story instead of erasing it.Grief and joy aren't opposites. They can exist in the same house, sometimes in the same hour.You don't need anyone else to believe something was a sign for it to be true for you.Paying attention to specific details, like a name, a place, or a date, is often what turns an ordinary moment into something that feels like a message.Summary of the episodeIn the final installment of the Signs From Heaven series, Kayla shares the story of how a puppy named Indy found her way into her family, months after they lost their 13-year-old lab, Max. What started as a passing thought after seeing a photo of an available puppy turned into a chain of small, specific coincidences: the puppy's birthday on the Fourth of July, a breeder's phone number that showed up as Hallock, Minnesota, the exact town where Kayla's late husband Kyle once worked on the pipeline, and a personality video showing Indy as the bravest, first-out-of-the-litter puppy of the group.Kayla walks through the decision itself, the wait list, the deposit she almost didn't put down, and the moment she knew she had to say yes, while being honest about what the choice actually looked like: very little sleep, a few accidents, and a daily moment of "what did we just do." She holds space for both the chaos of a new puppy and the deeper reason it felt meaningful, without ever pretending the two cancel each other out.The episode closes out the three-part Signs series with the show's clearest statement yet on what these moments are and are not. Kayla is upfront that she can't prove any of it, and she's not trying to. She offers a way of thinking about signs as personal rather than universal, and a reminder that new joy after loss doesn't undo what came before. It just adds another chapter.Key Topics Covered:The origin story of how the puppy Indy joined the familyGrief after losing a longtime family petSigns from a loved one who has passed awayHow new joy and grief can coexist without contradictionWrapping up a three-part series on signs and meaning after lossINDY is short for "I'm Not Done Yet," a phrase often said by the late Kyle Strand during his courageous battle with colon cancer. Kyle's four-year journey was both extremely challenging and profoundly beautiful. Though he lost his battle in July 2017, his legacy lives on through his two dying wishes: to establish the INDY Foundation and to inspire others to live every day to its fullest. In August 2017, the INDY Foundation was born, continuing Kyle's mission to support and uplift cancer warriors everywhere. Find more information here: www.indy-foundation.orgFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/ImNotDoneYetMNInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/indyfoundation/Join our INDY Tribe - Inner Circle FB Group. A group for those affected by cancer.https://www.facebook.com/groups/202854020588761