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The Roles We Play (and Outgrow) in Friendships and Families

Eat Your Heart Out··27 May 2026·43 min

About this episode

This week on Eat Your Heart Out, we’re talking about the roles we play in our friendships and families — the caretaker, the fixer, the comic relief, the responsible one, the “easy” one, the mediator, and, of course, the chaos agent. How do these roles form? Are they chosen, assigned or inherited? And what happens when we outgrow them, but the people closest to us still expect us to keep performing?  We get into: 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family dynamics and friendship patterns And, as promised: Sadaf's Vogue story + Our role-playing game, for you and your friends: We’re on a group trip and the Airbnb is double-booked. Who gets this sorted? Someone starts crying at brunch. Who is mopping up the tears? The bill comes and it’s wildly incorrect. Who speaks up? There’s tension in the group chat. Who defuses it? One friend’s ex walks into the bar: who spirals, who strategizes? One of us discovers gossip about a mutual friend. Who decides to bury it, who decides to share it? New episodes drop every week. Follow, subscribe, leave a review, and share with someone who’s rethinking love right alongside you.   Email us: hi@eaturheartoutpod.com Follow us: Instagram, TikTok   Follow Meaghan: Instagram, TikTok Follow Sadaf: Instagram, X