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I Used to Believe THIS About Love... Until I Healed

Let's Get It With Coach Los··15 October 2026·13 min

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I used to believe the right person would simply show up when the timing was right.Now I see how much power that belief can take away from you.In this episode, Coach Los breaks down one of the biggest relationship beliefs he had to unlearn: that love is mostly about fate, chemistry, and finding the person you are “meant to be with.” If you are dating, healing from a breakup, trying to attract a healthy relationship, or wondering why strong chemistry keeps leading to the wrong people, this conversation will challenge the way you think about love.Coach Los breaks down:Why waiting on fate can keep you from developing discernmentHow chemistry can make unhealthy relationships feel destinedWhy feeling “alive” around someone can become the beginning of codependencyHow instant connection can blind you to red flagsWhy healthy love is built through consistency, communication, and shared valuesHow healing, standards, and self-trust change who you are attracted toWhy alignment matters more than coincidence when choosing a partnerCoach Los also explores the difference between divine timing and passive waiting.You can believe in timing without giving away your responsibility.Because the right relationship is not only about finding the right person.It is also about becoming aligned enough to recognize them, choose them wisely, and build something healthy when they arrive.