112. Obsessing Over the “How” Is Blocking Your Truest Desires & Fuelling Self-Doubt as a Female Leader

Tell me what you want, what you really really want. Not what makes sense. Not what you think you can have. Not what looks successful online. Not what’s realistic.What do you really fucking want?In this episode, Hannah explores why so many high-achieving women become disconnected from their deepest desires after years of prioritizing responsibility, productivity, and what seems realistic. She shares why asking "how?" is exactly what’s extinguishing the very desires you're meant to follow.You'll understand how to distinguish between inherited desires, protective desires and authentic desires and how to reconnect with the field of possibility without bypassing reality.You’ll learn:Why you might struggle to know what you genuinely want and how to separate true desire from conditioning, obligation, and what feels realistically achievable.How your nervous system and current identity can unconsciously limit the possibilities you're able to imagine.Practical tools to access what I call the field of possibility, so you can move beyond "How could this possibly happen?" and into "What else isavailable to me?" Listen to this episode to stop asking your current reality for permission to dream and start reconnecting with the desires that were placed on your heart for a reason.New episodes every Wednesday & Friday at 8am ETDesires on Fire a 4-week love affair with your own aliveness begins October 26Get immediate free access to devotion-to-self audio activationsRelease the overwhelm of anxiety and self-doubt in less than 10-minutes a day with audio activations that will ignite your embodied feminine leadership.DM Hannah on Instagram @somasomawitheaseThis podcast explores the deep connection between female leadership and the power of Divine Feminine Energy, helping the high-achiever and entrepreneur move beyond anxiety, exhaustion, overwhelm and imposter syndrome, by exploring emotional intelligence, connection, and the art of receiving.All while unpacking patterns like codependency, control, and resentment, and offering tools to regulate the nervous system, reconnect with intuition, and move toward clarity, confidence and trust, all while celebrating ambition, creativity, pleasure, abundance, and the grounding wisdom of somatics to find joy and transformation through alignment.