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The Surprising Impact of Your Personal Brand on How Others See You

Polished-ish··1 August 2026·17 min

About this episode

Your personal brand is more than just a buzzword—it's the secret sauce that shapes how the world sees you and decides your future. But what if your own perception doesn’t match what others say behind your back? In this eye-opening episode, Gerry, Ruma, and Julianne peel back the layers of authenticity, influence, and identity to reveal how aligning your inner self with your outer reputation can unlock unprecedented opportunities.You’ll learn:The key traits that top influencers embody, from authenticity to calm under pressureHow to identify and fix gaps between how you see yourself and how others perceive youThe importance of feedback—and how to embrace constructive criticism to refine your personal brandPractical steps for building a reputation grounded in integrity, kindness, and innovationWhy your journey of reinvention and self-awareness defines your true influenceKey topics:The significance of personal branding and authenticityExercises to identify how others perceive your personal brandWords that describe individual brands: examples from the hostsThe power of permission and courage to try new thingsThe role of trust and vulnerability in leadership and team-buildingSelf-awareness and aligning external perceptions with internal valuesThe importance of feedback and self-reflection for growthHow to handle perceptions that don't match your true selfEncouraging listeners to ask friends for five words that describe themThe impact of being a disruptor, innovator, and connectorTimestamps: 00:00 - Introduction and travel stories 01:30 - What is personal branding and why it matters 02:23 - The power of permission and courage in personal growth 03:17 - Words that describe our guests and their brands 04:06 - Authenticity, empathy, and living your values 05:20 - The traits that define Julianne: trailblazer, fearless, innovator 06:20 - Understanding how others perceive us; aligning words with self-image 07:43 - Embracing failure, reinvention, and the learning mindset 08:48 - The importance of networking, being a connector, and helping others 09:55 - Addressing problems with solutions and moving beyond admiration 10:34 - Ruma’s words: grit and kindness, and how perceptions can be refined 11:41 - Julianne’s qualities: calm, approachable, smart, and brave 13:00 - Self-awareness: what do people say about you when you're not in the room? 14:10 - Dealing with misaligned perceptions and improving your personal brand 15:35 - Mentoring others and the importance of honest feedback 16:28 - Trusting your team; creating psychologically safe environments 17:25 - Self-reflection on grit and the impact of kindness in leadership 18:18 - Practical homework: asking friends to describe you in five words 18:36 - Closing thoughts and call to actionConnect with the hosts:Polishedishthepodcast on Instagram