"Just Be More Confident" Is Terrible Dating Advice with Gina London

What if waiting to feel confident is exactly what's keeping you stuck? Kimmy Seltzer welcomes former CNN correspondent, communication expert, and Amplify You author Gina London to explore why confidence grows through practice—and how small changes in your conversations can transform your dating life. From making eye contact to asking better follow-up questions, Kimmy and Gina share practical ways to get out of your head, ease awkward exchanges, and make others feel seen. They also open up about rebuilding confidence after divorce, finding your voice, and keeping human connection alive in a world increasingly shaped by screens and AI. Whether you're returning to dating or tired of waiting until you feel "ready," this conversation will inspire you to take that first step and let confidence catch up. Key Takeaways: Why taking action helps build the confidence you've been waiting for. How tone, pacing, and body language shape your connections. Three simple follow-up questions to keep conversations flowing. How curiosity shifts your attention away from self-consciousness. Why small social wins matter—even without a romantic spark. How supportive relationships and intentional action can help you rebuild after divorce. If you're not sure what's getting in your way, book a FREE private call with Kimmy by clicking here https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/. You'll uncover the patterns and blind spots that may be keeping you stuck and look at what you can start doing differently to create the kind of dating life and relationship you want. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website: https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com