Whose Dreams Are They Chasing

📌 Brief SummaryEvery dad has dreams for his kids, but sometimes those hopes quietly become expectations our kids never chose. This episode challenges fathers to distinguish between encouraging their kids’ potential and trying to determine what they should do with it. As our kids grow, our role must shift from directing their path to helping them develop the faith, wisdom, character, and courage to discern their own. The question to keep asking is simple: Who wants it more?⏰ Timestamps00:00 Whose Dreams Are They Chasing?02:57 The Pressure of Parental Expectations05:48 Recognizing Potential vs. Pressure08:47 The Importance of Curiosity in Parenting11:52 Individual Paths: Embracing Differences14:50 Navigating Disappointment and Expectations17:47 Transitioning from Control to Guidance21:09 Preparing Kids for Their Own Paths23:54 The Coach's Challenge: A Dream AuditKey Quote“I can see your potential without making your potential my project.”Coach's ChallengeChoose one dream, hope, or expectation you have for one of your kids and ask yourself four questions:Where did this dream come from?Does my child actually want this, or do I want it for them?Who wants it more?If they ultimately choose something different, can I still support the person they’re becoming?Then, if appropriate, have the conversation with your child. Ask before you advise, and listen without convincing, defending, or immediately trying to solve.Resources🔸 Book a Call to Explore More📲 Calm & Steady Leadership Strategy Session🔸 Positive Legacy AcademyMy signature coaching program for Christian fathers:→ https://findyourazimuthcoaching.com/legacy-academy🔸 5-Minute Calm Leadership Reset Guide📓 https://www.findyourazimuthcoaching.com/5-minute-calm🔸 Support the ShowIf this episode served you:Follow the podcastLeave a 5-star reviewShare it with another dad who would benefitConnect with Dan📧 Email: coachdan@fya-coaching.com📸 Instagram: @fya.coaching📘 Facebook: @fya-coaching💼 LinkedIn: Daniel A. Hayden🎥 YouTube: @FindYourAzimuth