Podcast Episode
When Her Behavior Stops Making Sense: What Men Must See!

About this episode
She forgot your kid in a hotel room. She lies about where she is while you're staring right at the kids. She tells you to go to hell — then asks you to dinner the next day. Is that normal? Or is she actually losing it?
In this video, I walk through a real coaching call with a guy we'll call Bob — recently divorced, two daughters, and a situation that got stranger the longer we talked. By the end, I had to stop and ask him the question every divorced dad eventually has to ask himself: is this normal stress... or something I need to take seriously?
I break down why the woman you divorce is never the woman you married, how a decade of "tests" slowly builds toward a breaking point, why fear turns otherwise rational women into people who seem unrecognizable, and — most importantly — how to know when erratic behavior crosses the line from "she's having a hard time" into "my kids might not be safe."
This is a cautionary tale for every man currently in or approaching a divorce, especially if there are small children involved. Document everything. Trust your gut. And don't assume someone else will protect your kids if you won't.
In this video:
• Why divorce reveals instability instead of creating it
• The "frog in the pot" pattern nobody warns you about
• Real warning signs from an actual case (alcohol history, inconsistent stories, erratic texts)
• When to involve lawyers, courts, and psych evaluations
• Why you can't wait for permission to protect your kids
If you're going through a divorce or custody battle and need someone who's been through it, go to johngriffin.com — grab my book on divorce recovery or check out the merch. Coaching calls are open too.
If this hit home, share it with a guy who needs to hear it. Like, subscribe, and stay tuned for more real talk on Life 2.0.
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Chapters:
00:00 Is This Normal?
01:30 How to Boil A Frog
04:15 Begin Your Tests
07:30 Not The Woman You Married
10:30 What About Bob?
17:30 The Difficult Decision
27:05 Do The Right Thing
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