Podcast Episode

Pleasure Activism: Why Rage and Desire Are the Same Fire with Meena Bhasin

About this episode

What if the most radical thing you could do right now — given everything happening in the world — is fill your body with pleasure first, before the work, before the fixing, before you've earned the right to feel good?Kait talks with violinist, pleasure activist and embodiment guide Meena Bhasin about why pleasure belongs before productivity, not after it — and what it means to move grief, rage and desire through the body instead of managing it from a distance. They trace the difference between performing for an audience and giving your soul to one, and follow an unexpected thread: the world isn't short on protest, it's short on mother.Meena treats pleasure as biology, not indulgence — oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine, a body built to receive. She draws sacred rage (the no) and Eros (the yes) as the same fire moving in two directions. A violinist since four who reclaimed music from classical training, and a mother running a solo sex practice she treats as non-negotiable, Meena speaks from daily practice, not theory.About Meena Bhasin Meena Bhasin is a violinist, pleasure activist and embodiment guide working at the intersection of music, movement and erotic self-knowledge. She's the creator of a music-and-movement embodiment practice, runs the community Revolution Calls, and is a mother of two.Key TakeawaysPleasure isn't earned after the work — Meena calls it the actual fuel source, backed by oxytocin, serotonin and dopamine.You can't be in fight-or-flight and in pleasure at once — making pleasure a real regulation tool, not an escape.Sacred rage and Eros are the same fire in two directions: rage protects what we love, Eros creates it.The world's violence points less to a lack of protest than to a deficit of mother energy across systems and leadership.You don't need to be "sorted" to start a pleasure practice — you only need 1%, and Eros meets you there.Memorable Quote "Pleasure before productivity — let's source our energy from this incredible, abundant, endless, free source that lives within our bodies."Connect with Meena BhasinInstagram: @sensualrevelerWebsite: meenabhasin.comSubstack: https://meenabhasin.substack.com/Pleasure in Power Workshop & Revolution CallsConnect with Kait + PhenXXKait on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenzaPhenXX: phenxx.comPhenXX IG: @lovephenxxBecoming Flame IG: @becomingflame.podYouTube: @lovephenxxSponsored by PhenXX.com — code "podcast" for 10% off your first purchase.