EP 72 // Why You Feel Invisible to Your Middle Schooler

About this episode

Do you ever feel invisible to your middle schooler? The eye rolls, one-word answers, and growing independence can leave you wondering, “Do I even matter anymore?” And when that happens, it can be tempting to try harder—ask more questions, give more advice, or push for connection. But sometimes, trying harder actually pushes our kids further away. In this episode, we’re looking at five Proverbs 31 principles that can help Christian moms move from feeling overlooked to showing up with confidence, wisdom, kindness, and faith. You’ll learn how to stop measuring your worth by your child’s response and instead focus on the kind of mom God is calling you to be. In this episode, we’ll talk about: • Why your identity cannot depend on your child’s attention or approval • How to connect with your middle schooler without forcing conversation • Why your quiet, faithful care matters—even when no one notices • How wisdom and kindness can change difficult conversations • Why focusing on your own faithfulness can bring freedom • How the Holy Spirit helps you parent with love, patience, gentleness, and self-control Instead of asking, “How do I make my child notice me?” you’ll be encouraged to ask, “How can Jesus change the way I show up?” God sees your faithfulness, even when your child doesn’t. 🔴 FREE EBOOK: Reclaim Your Role as a Godly Influence in Your Middle Schooler’s Life https://www.lifeandpeaceministries.com/time-truth-trust-EBOOK ⭐️ Find more free biblical parenting resources: https://www.lifeandpeaceministries.com/blog ⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Introduction 00:48 - Feeling Invisible to Your Child 01:27 - Find Your Identity in God 03:05 - Why Faithful Care Matters 05:07 - Measure What You Can Control 🎧 LISTEN NEXT EP 71 // Christian Mom, You Don’t Have to Lose Yourself for Everyone Else https://www.lifeandpeaceministries.com/podcasts/faith-mom-mentor-helping-moms-guide-kids-8-12-to-walk-with-god/episodes/2149247146 =========================== RESOURCES 📖 Joshua Bible Study: https://amzn.to/40rPF4o 📖 NLT Large Print Premium Value Thinline Bible: https://amzn.to/3Ndslol 📓 Horacio Printing: https://www.horacioprinting.com/?dt_id=2969303 Use code LIFEANDPEACEMINISTRIES for 15% off your entire order. ⚡️ Pair your planner with Systemize Your Life: https://offers.chelsijo.co/sylcheckout?am_id=faithmommentor =========================== WORK WITH ANNE ⚡️ Schedule a Faith Mom Mentor Session: https://www.lifeandpeaceministries.com/schedule-a-faith-mom-mentor-session ⚡️ Book Anne to Speak at Your Event: https://www.lifeandpeaceministries.com/speaker-page =========================== CONNECT Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1DFRpcBLBK/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandpeaceministries/ YouTube — Faith Mom Mentor: https://www.youtube.com/@FaithMomMentor?sub_confirmation=1 Life and Peace Ministries and Faith Mom Mentor help Christian moms navigate the middle school years with biblical truth, practical parenting tools, and greater confidence in their God-given influence. #ChristianParenting #ChristianMom #BiblicalParenting #Proverbs31 #MiddleSchoolParenting Affiliate Disclosure: Some links may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a commission from qualifying purchases at no additional cost to you. This podcast is for educational and faith-based encouragement and is not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or counseling advice.