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It's Not About You: Stop Taking Everything So Personally

No More BullShift··18 August 2026·29 min

About this episode

Most of what people say and do has nothing to do with you — and once you truly understand that, everything changes.In this episode, Peggy and Marci get real about one of the biggest energy drains women carry: taking things personally. Whether it's a sharp comment from your partner, a cold shoulder from a friend, or criticism you just can't shake — you may have been carrying weight that was never yours to begin with.What you'll walk away with:✔ How to recognize when someone's reaction is really about their own inner world — not you✔ Why practicing curiosity instead of assumption is the fastest path to peace ✔ How to "consider the source" without dismissing every piece of feedback✔ The truth about people who will never be satisfied — and why that's not your problem to solve If you're exhausted from replaying conversations, overanalyzing reactions, and shrinking yourself to keep the peace — this one's for you.You are not responsible for everyone else's emotional weather.📌 Tell Us In The Comments: What's one situation you've been taking personally that you now realize probably had nothing to do with you? Drop it below — your BullShift moment might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today. 👇🎙️ Keep the shift going:⭐ Subscribe — new episodes every Monday and Thursday👍 Like, Rate and Review this if it hit home📲 Share with a woman who needs to hear this today📸 Follow us @nomorebullshift on YouTube and InstagramAbout No More BullShift:Peggy is a Debra Silverman trained astrologer, weight loss and transformation coach, and Reiki Level 2 practitioner.Marci is a Certified Life Coach from The Life Coach School, salon owner, and real estate investor.Together, they help midlife women reclaim their power and see their best years as ahead of them — not behind them.