meet your person without dating more - the most "strategic" change I made to my love life

6 years ago I was trying to make sure I was every guy's dream girl, because I believed being the best version of myself would attract better men. So why wasn't it? Why, if I was my best self, was I not meeting my person? Why was I still having men from my past pop up, or men who claimed to be interested but never got to know the real me? In this episode I explain the only "strategic" change I made to my actual dating and love life and how it made meeting my person one of the easiest, most joyful experiences I ever had.