The Truth About Being Bisexual In A Relationship

What happens to bisexual identity once you're in a relationship? Many people assume that when a bisexual person settles down, they’ve “picked a side” — that they’re now either gay or straight. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. In this episode of BiSpective, Lewis Oakley explores the unique challenge bisexual people face when they’re in relationships: how do you stay visible as bisexual when the world only sees your partner? From stereotypes and assumptions to the pressure to “prove” your identity, this conversation dives into one of the most misunderstood aspects of bisexual life. If you’ve ever wondered how bisexuality works in relationships — or why people struggle to understand it — this episode is for you.