20 | Sylvia - Missed Miscarriage, Induction, Uterine Infection, C-Section, Postpartum Anxiety

In this raw and transparent episode, host Victoria Gaba sits down with Portland-based first-time mother Sylvia Torres to unpack her journey to motherhood. Sylvia opens up about the heartbreak of a ten-week missed miscarriage, undergoing a D&C, and the cautious optimism of conceiving again during a vacation to New York. She shares the anxiety of announcing her pregnancy after loss and the realities of navigating prenatal care as a plus-size individual. Facing rotating doctors at a teaching hospital, Sylvia encountered conflicting opinions about her weight despite passing her glucose tests and maintaining perfect health markers. She details pushing back against early induction pressure, eventually going in on her due date with a Foley balloon and Pitocin. Sylvia courageously discusses her medical trauma, including an agonizing 45-minute experience where an undisclosed student anesthesiologist repeatedly failed to place her epidural. A failed induction, internal infection, and meconium fluid ultimately led to an emergency C-section, during which she felt intense pressure, followed by a terrifying postpartum hemorrhage that required her to be fully anesthetized. Her recovery brought new trials, from healing with a history of vasculitis to breastfeeding struggles. After a hospital panic attack and a low milk supply, Sylvia's transition to formula feeding at three months drastically improved her mental health. Finally, she sheds light on overcoming postpartum anxiety through therapy and medication, finding a peaceful routine with her daughter. This episode is an essential resource on birth realities, mental health, and inclusive healthcare.See more from Sylvia on Social Media! TikTokInstagram Resources Mentioned:Ritual Prenatal VitaminsElix Traditional Chinese Medicine Herbs Connect With Us:TikTokInstagramFacebookYouTubeIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and subscribe! Your support helps us reach more plus-size women and share the stories that matter.Medical Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your healthcare provider regarding your specific pregnancy and health needs.