19 | Lexy - IVF, Smooth Pregnancy, Pre-Eclampsia, Induction, Vaginal Birth, Forceps, Donor Milk

In this episode, host Victoria Gaba sits down with first-time mother Lexy, to share her deeply inspiring journey through male factor infertility, a plus-size pregnancy, and an intense delivery. Lexy opens up about navigating fertility hurdles stemming from her husband’s past testicular cancer and chemotherapy. After facing discouraging medical bias and strict BMI cut-offs from fertility clinics in Oregon, Lexy pursued long-distance IVF care at a weight-inclusive clinic in Gilbert, Arizona. Remarkably, utilizing sperm her husband had frozen 15 years prior, they achieved a successful pregnancy on their very first egg retrieval and embryo transfer.Throughout her pregnancy, Lexy enjoyed a healthy prenatal experience, completely defying the stereotypes associated with high BMI pregnancies. Working alongside a highly supportive OB-GYN, Dr. Mike Davis at Northwest Women’s Clinic, her routine remained uncomplicated until a sudden blood pressure spike at 39 weeks led to a preeclampsia diagnosis. Lexy walks us through the whirlwind transition of going from a routine doctor's appointment straight to a hospital labor induction. She provides an unfiltered look at experiencing 100% back labor, utilizing pain management tools like nitrous oxide, and finding immense relief in a smooth epidural placement that respected her body.The birth took a dramatic turn during the pushing phase due to sudden fetal distress, marked by a drop in the baby's heart rate and meconium in the amniotic fluid. Lexy details her experience with an assisted vaginal birth via a complex forceps delivery, addressing her initial fears of patient mobility and newborn bruising. Despite a low initial Apgar score and the need for immediate CPAP breathing assistance, baby Stella arrived safely. Lexy concludes by shedding light on the realities of postpartum recovery, including a 24-hour magnesium drip, healing from a second-degree tear, and overcoming mom guilt by embracing a successful formula and combo-feeding routine. This episode offers an empowering, realistic perspective on navigating reproductive care as a plus-size patientSee more from Lexy on Social Media! TikTokInstagramResources Mentioned: Northwest Women’s Clinic- Portland, ORConnect With Us:TikTokInstagramFacebookYouTubeIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and subscribe! Your support helps us reach more plus-size women and share the stories that matter.Medical Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your healthcare provider regarding your specific pregnancy and health needs.