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Episode 009 - WHY GOD WENT SILENT AT 2AM w/ Zach Unger

Relatively Functional Dads··3 August 2026·1h 16m

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It's 2AM. You've tried everything. Baby's still crying. You let out one final prayer  and hear nothing.If you've been there, this episode is for you.Buddy and producer Noah sit down with their good friend Zach to talk about what happens to your faith when sleep training pushes you to the edge. Zach opens up about months of sleepless nights, prayers that seemed to go unanswered, and the moment he started to wonder if God was cruel  and what brought him back.But this episode isn't really about sleep training. It's about what happens when you're physically, emotionally, and spiritually depleted  and God still seems quiet.We unpack one of the most powerful parenting metaphors we've come across: spiritual tummy time. Just like a baby strains on their stomach to build strength they didn't know they needed, God's silence in your hardest seasons might be doing something you can't see yet.In this episode:What sleepless nights reveal about your relationship with GodWhy unanswered prayer isn't the same as ignored prayerHow to protect your marriage when you're both running on emptyThe danger of letting shame keep you from showing upWhy community with other dads is non-negotiable Music Provided By: Derek McClardyWe’d love to hear from you! Leave a comment or send questions and feedback to relativelyfunctionaldads@gmail.com Instagram: @relativelyfunctionaldads