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I Didn’t Know I Was Pregnant…Then I Had to Figure Out Motherhood Fast

The Torch Mom Podcast··12 April 2026·1h 29m

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She didn’t even know she was pregnant…until she was almost 7 months along. Now she’s a mom of four, sharing what it really took to survive, heal, and break cycles. Tia sits down with Sandra, a mother of four who opens up about growing up in trauma, navigating abuse, and stepping into motherhood without a roadmap. From finding out she was pregnant late…to dealing with postpartum, parenting through behavioral struggles, and learning how to break toxic cycles, this is a real, unfiltered conversation. In this episode: ​finding out you’re pregnant at 27 weeks ​becoming a mom with no time to prepare ​postpartum anxiety and overwhelming thoughts ​feeling like a “bad mom” and working through guilt ​raising children through trauma and behavioral challenges ​learning new ways to parent instead of repeating cycles ​why environment impacts children more than labels ​choosing to do things differently as a mom This isn’t just about motherhood. It’s about survival, growth and making sure your children don’t carry what you did. Connect with the Torch Mom Podcast Instagram, Facebook, TikTok & Threads @thetorchmompodcast Have questions or experiences to share? Please send us an email to thetorchmompodcast@gmail.com Want to be a guest on The Torch Mom Podcast? Apply here: https://form.jotform.com/231248521047046 Got something on your heart? Call: 202-670-6476 Or send a voice message using this link: Just record it on your phone no camera needed. https://www.speakpipe.com/msg/s/440562/2/3xjam5jbabj9llyp Answer this week’s Confession Question Submit your answer using this separate voice message link: https://www.speakpipe.com/TorchMomConfessions Your story could help another mom feel seen. Connect with Sandra and her resources Instagram https://www.instagram.com/4everqueen82?igsh=cnkzMjBsY3Zydzhu Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/18CLbtz7V1/?mibextid=wwXIfr