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I Had to Tell My Own Voice to Shut Up…Before I Could Become Her

The Torch Mom Podcast··18 April 2026·59 min

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The hardest voice she had to silence…was her own. Before she could grow into the woman she’s becoming, she had to unlearn fear, doubt, and everything she believed about herself. Tia sits down with Keelay, a mom, wife, speaker and author who opens up about growing up in a strict household, navigating motherhood, and discovering her purpose through life’s unexpected turns. From saying she never wanted kids…to becoming a mother who found her strength, confidence, and calling through motherhood, this episode is real, reflective, and deeply relatable. In this episode: ​learning to silence self-doubt and negative thoughts ​motherhood changing your identity in unexpected ways ​feeling unprepared but showing up anyway ​overcoming people-pleasing and setting boundaries ​navigating comparison and pressure from social media ​raising emotionally aware children through transparency ​breaking generational cycles through communication ​choosing faith even when life doesn’t make sense Connect with the Torch Mom Podcast Instagram, Facebook, TikTok & Threads @thetorchmompodcast Have questions or experiences to share? Please send us an email to thetorchmompodcast@gmail.com Want to be a guest on The Torch Mom Podcast? Apply here: https://form.jotform.com/231248521047046 Got something on your heart? Call: 202-670-6476 Or send a voice message using this link: Just record it on your phone no camera needed. https://www.speakpipe.com/msg/s/440562/2/3xjam5jbabj9llyp Answer this week’s Confession Question Submit your answer using this separate voice message link: https://www.speakpipe.com/TorchMomConfessions Your story could help another mom feel seen. Connect with Keelay and her resources Instagram https://www.instagram.com/keelay_carter?igsh=MW9paGtqem9ldzc1Yw== Ready to level up? Chat with Keelay https://www.keelaycarter.com/ Grab your copy of Dear ____, Shut Up! https://www.keelaycarter.com/product-page/dear-shut-up-by-keelay-carter The Birthing Class Interest Form https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfdG5pB9P29x31zSJJ8m8lgVl1iXS60qi3GX5d-26xQylEiEQ/viewform